men, there's nothing more important than knowing
that he makes a woman feel great when she's with
him.
Seriously.
Think "ego."
If you think this truth about men through,
you'll start to have a shift in perspective and
see something you've probably never seen before.
When a woman comes to a man and wants to talk
about something she thinks is wrong in their
relationship, oftentimes a man gets upset not
because he doesn't want to listen to the woman or
talk...
But because it's difficult for him to come to
terms with the idea that the woman could be
unhappy with him.
A man thinks, "It makes me feel like less of a
man since I don't make her happy. If she's
unhappy, then somewhere inside I must not be good
enough."
Imagine if a man was constantly expressing his
feelings about your relationship to you that
seemed disappointed and frustrated.
How would it make you feel?
Sure, as a woman you might think to yourself
that you'd talk to him about it and try and make
things better...
But really you'd start to have one of 2 things
come into your mind either consciously or
subconsciously:
1. Something really is wrong with YOU and the way
you are in the relationship, and he's trying to
tell you...
2. Something is wrong with HIM and how HE thinks
and feels that has nothing to do with you, and
it's his own "bad thinking" about HIMSELF that's
making him obsessively unhappy...
Either way, a whole lot MORE DISTANCE is
created between you two.
Now, lots of women draw the conclusion that
this means you should try and pretend things are
ok when they're not.
That when you're not having the physical and
emotional connection with a man you know is
possible, that you can't communicate how you feel
with a man.
WRONG.
My point: If you want to learn how to connect
with a man on a deeper level, then what you say
isn't the most IMPORTANT thing.
It's HOW and WHEN you say it.
I'll tell you something -
Learning the secrets of communicating with a
man and creating a deep level of Physical and
"Emotional Attraction" can be very rewarding.
A lot of women know EXACTLY what it's like to
be in a relationship with a man who has NO
INTENTION of committing to something more serious.
In other words, he's not feeling that powerful
gut-level ATTRACTION for you that makes all the
fear and excuses for NOT being with you and
building a great life and partnership go away
without RESISTANCE.
Do you know how to make a man FEEL this way
when he's with you.
Or are you still trying to "CONVINCE" him with
words and your own knowledge and "logic" that a
close, loving, lasting relationship with him will
make him and you happy together?
Well, let me tell you...
Just like all the other things that a man
"says" that he wants and doesn't want with a
woman... that most women don't ever "get", being
the woman a man is NATURALLY ATTRACTED to on a
deep level is one of the BIG ONES.
This kind of attraction is THE thing that will
make a man who "says" he doesn't want a serious
relationship beg a woman for a real commitment and
a future together.
If you understand the secrets of how attraction
works for a man, you will notice that men will
start to behave VERY differently around you.
It's called "Natural & Lasting Attraction."
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